從有記憶以來

父親與母親毫無疑問都是我最親的家人

是一種超越任何形式的關係

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but when i started to be in relationships with men

i suddenly realized that

the relationship between my parents

is totally another story

is in fact different from what i'd always though it should be

 

我從來沒有超過一年的男朋友

說實話通常在一起一個月就會受不了

相信全世界的人都一樣

差別只是在時間的長短而已

we all know that passion fades

so what happens next?

what exactly is the thing that encourages people to make the commitment?

that supports two completely stangers to spend the rest of their life together?